I used to work at the airport in Newark. We had a grubby man who came up every week to buy a ticket home to North Carolina. He looked horribly ill-kemp, spoke with a pronounced southern accent, and paid cash for his tickets. While some others did not particularly like to wait on him, I found him to be charming. It turned out, he owned a salvage and disposal company in New Jersey, and commuted. He was probably one of the wealthiest--and most humble--customers we had travel on our flights. And he was also one of our most loyal customers.
This week, I became aware that several acquaintances were wary of allowing their middle school students to attend a county-wide field trip festival day to a Renaissance Faire, based primarily on the notion that they didn't like the kids being exposed to "those kinds of people".
What kind of people? Actors? Artisans? Merchants?
I suspect the prejudice here is that in keeping with the characters they portray, many of "those people" sport long hair, tattoos, pierced ears (and occasionally eyebrows), and facial hair.
Gasp and Guffaw!
Truth be told, I have been involved with Renaissance faires for nearly thirty years both as patron, and occasionally as performer/server. The fact is, the majority of the faire folk are employed in regular jobs throughout the week, or they are busy creating the wares they sell.
I knew a man who sold medical equipment for twenty years (suit and tie and all), before he decided to try his hand at selling custom designed boots on the renfest circuit. He lost the suit, grew a beard, and made a modest living traveling the country working for a west coast based company that created the footwear. And he found wonderful happiness in his work. He would definitely be classified as one of "those people".
I have known people who worked as martial arts instructors, teachers, accountants, booksellers, and even architectural and engineering design assistants who spent their weekends donning period costumes and affecting accents to create a world from the past, for the enjoyment of others.
These are the people we're supposed to be wary of?
The same people who are eager to label the law school student as a ne'er do well because of his garb and coif, are likely to proclaim a book with the word "sorcerer" in the title, a heinous creation of some atheistic monster. Consider how ludicrous that last supposition is. Now, consider how on-the-mark it is.
The performers are just that. They adopt a character and perform for their target audience. When the county sends the schools to the faire on that special day, the performers, and vendors, and artisans will cater to that special target audience. I doubt that they will judge the teachers or the masses by the rudeness of a few patrons. I doubt that they judge the crowd by their lack of costume, or the money in their pockets, but will focus on the laughter, and the smiles, and the joy that they, as performers, inspire.
And if, by some miracle, a student ends up picking up a book, or doing some research on the Renaissance period, or takes up fencing, then maybe those who were initially so concerned will take the time to thank "those kinds of people" for their dedication.
I know. I doubt it, too. But it is wishful thinking.
Well, Lori, those folks from FreeCreditReport.com do look pretty darn dangerous.
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OMG Lori...this is an awesome blog and you never told me you had it! Why? I would have given your blog a grand opening shout out!
ReplyDeleteI agree with your thoughts on this post...I don't understand the closed minds of some people...they miss so much!
Nor do I agree with people who take someone words about another - specially when they know that person isn't that way.
Those that make others swear to secrecy before they gossip are usually the troublemakers who lie to make themselves look good to others...
The silent one is usually the one that's been hurt....
Like you said about those judging the man because of the way he looked...beware the glad hand. Look through the smokey glass to see what really hides behind the pane.
Your friend
Hawk
Thanks to Sandy and to Hawk. Call me shy...
ReplyDeleteCall you shy! Honey, you're not shy...you're wise!
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Big hugs
Hawk
Hon, come by my blog and leave a post...by doing that the other girls will see your button and click on it to visit you here.
ReplyDeleteI put up a side bar shout out for you yesterday...later (in a few weeks) I will do a feature on you on me blog! we'll get you going here soon!
HUgs
Hawk
Lori,
ReplyDeleteLove your post. It reminded me of when I traveled with Royal American Shows for one summer. Most people I knew looked down on what they deemed carnie people, when infact these people were wonderful caring people. Who, I might add, made a nice living doing what they did.
Of course they did not wear their best clothes(nor I during the summer I was with them), while they worked the front or back end of the strip. Yet once the night ended and everyone was showered and 'cleaned up', you would see people dressed in the latest expensive pair of jeans to a going out on the town really nice dress/suit.
It was such a great summer and wow did I learn so much about never judging a book by its cover.
Love the blog!!!
Hugs,
Vicki
Thank you for the personal perspective! When I was twenty, I had the opportunity to interview with the circus for a sales position. My mom literally hid the car keys so I couldn't go. Circus people were shady, and I might end up being sold into slavery, she said. What a hoot! It was the circus! Unbelievable
ReplyDeleteLori,
ReplyDeleteJust dropping in to see what's up and what else you might have posted...I enjoyed reading your post!
I'll be back!
Hugs
Hawk
Hi Lori,
ReplyDeleteI'm with Hawk, I should have been visiting sooner. Funny, my blog this week talks about people like this...but it also talks about the downs in the spiritual groups. Sure would like you to stop by and give me your thoughts on it...And I will be coming by your sight more often...didn't know sorry.But I will be back more often...
I really enjoyed this blog it's great and so true when it comes to closed minds...how much people miss of life because of closed minds. How sad that they miss out on all the good stuff because of fear...What is there to fear from a witch? It's so Hollywood in what people think of us...or witches that is.
Keep up the good work and I will stop by each post if you let me know when you post..I'll be here.
Blessed BE My Friend
Jes